HAPPILY EVER AFTER, EVER AFTER, EVER AFTER
"We have many ever-afters in our lives. We go through many over comings. We would not have it otherwise, if we really think about it, for life is growth and change and we want to grow, to change, to be all that we can be, to fulfill our potential as children of God."
By Martha Smock
Life is a continuing story. As children we liked the stories that ended, “and so, they all lived happily ever after.” Isn’t this what we really want to do: to live happily ever after? After the struggle, after the loss, after the unhappy time? Happy ever after – the perfect ending to the story.
But, in our life story there are really no endings. What seems like an ending turns out to be a beginning. It is the conclusion of our one experience; it is the beginning of a new experience. We think some situation will never change, that some person will never change.
We want everything, and everyone to remain the same, happily ever after. “Happily ever after,” does not mean a static state, does not mean that the perfect moment, the perfect love, the perfect experience will somehow be set in time, never to change, to remain always the same forever after.
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