MISSION TO HELP
"You sometimes don't get to choose how you're needed."
October
was not kind to Sather Gowdy.
Among other hurdles, Gowdy went through a messy breakup, two people close to him died and an inattentive driver caused a crash that wrecked his car and tweaked his spine – all while he tried to focus on his studies at Gonzaga’s law school.
Gowdy, 30, grew up in north Spokane, the only son of a Whitworth University professor and a Rogers High School counselor.
He’s a history buff who names Winston Churchill among his heroes, and he flaunts a giant, ’70s-style Afro. And although Gowdy is typically upbeat, the whirlwind of tragic and frustrating events in October plunged him into a deep depression.
“I’d wake up and just feel bitter, you know? And I’ve always been taught that you don’t want to be that person,” he said. “You don’t want to be the person who’s
always complaining about such, or treating the world like it’s against you.”
One day, an elderly neighbor asked Gowdy to help her with some yardwork. To his surprise, the work was therapeutic, a way to center himself while helping someone else. It was, he said, the first time he had felt truly happy in weeks.
So he didn’t stop.
Although he’s often busy poring over 3-inch-thick law textbooks, Gowdy began volunteering as often as he could: shoveling snow, fixing a neighbor’s fence, pulling old mattresses and garbage from the alley..READ MORE