Thursday January
23, 2020
Every stage in your life deserves a little different you.
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The thing about elephants is, they are too big too hide. Same goes for your problems. Best to acknowledge your big issue from the get-go and wait for acceptance. May God bless you to be open and out front - you have nothing to hide.
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BREAKING UP
Two summers ago, I went through a breakup that left me staring at my hands and wanting to loop Wendy’s drive-thru over and over again until they restrained me from buying french fries. I sat on my couch with my nuggets in my lap and I called any person willing to listen to my ugly sobs.
I yelled. I screamed. I was bitter. Real bitter. In the deep of me, I was sick of heartbreak. I was sick of feeling like I was a loser when it came to love.
What people don’t tell you in the thick of heartbreak is that heartbreak is all about choices. It’s basically a Choose Your Own Adventure with more tears and Rachel Platten ballads. You make choices every day until the pain is either gone or it becomes you. Either stalk him on Facebook or get a hobby. Either wallow in your bed watching Grey’s Anatomy or get up and go for a walk. Either declare perpetual singleness and become a bird lady (way more underrated than a cat lady) or get back in the
dating game. Choices. We all get them.
I can confidently say that in 2015 I experienced the healthiest breakup of my life. I made some of the healthiest choices I’ve ever made in my life. Period. Game forever changed.
Was I perfect? No. Was I mad at God? Heck yes. Was I brooding for a while? Duh.
But here’s the biggest thing I learned through the high and low of getting over a person: you must do the things that will get your heart back into alignment. You’re not lost, you’re just camping out in a swamp for a few days. Pack up your bags. It’s time to go.
SCREW THE SHRINE One of the reasons why letting go is hard? We feel the need to hold onto every last thing we ever had of that person. Sweatshirts. Coasters. Love notes. Etc. Etc. Burn it. Throw it away. Donate it. Just get it out of your sight, no matter how painful the release may be. You will never be over it if you are always holding on relentlessly to tangible memories.
His sweatshirt, sleeping in your bed every night, is not going to bring him back. That’s the sad truth I hate saying but I wouldn’t be a good friend if I didn’t say it...READ MORE
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FACING GOLIATH
Please pray for my daughter and her son for God’s mercy favor and grace in her life. Her ex has made her life unbearable and painful as he is poisonings her son against her. She is facing Goliath as he is rich and powerful . Heavenly Father You are her only Hope. Thank you for your prayers
- manju
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