When you stumble, it's usually over something small that you didn't see, like a pebble or a child's toy. So why are you afraid of that obstacle looming large? Be grateful you can see it and get to work figuring out a way to bypass it. May you be blessed with smarts, desire and the gumption to overcome all that stands in your way.

it has been awhile i have written here, i wrote once , thank you for the prayer that worked wonders. Currently i am going through a lot with regards to relationship. After five years not being in one, i thought i finally met someone, we started off very well. i didnt had much expectation at first but slowly he made me feel he is the one. we used to do activities and he is used to plan it all to make things interesting. i didnt know much if we were in a relation but he organised a couple massage for my birthday at a very expensive hotel and lunch. Before our first date he told me about his psychological problem and how he was under anti depression medication and that he get panic attack in public place, the fear of being stuck , like claustrophobic. He is going through cognitive behavior therapy which has lessen over this couple of months. But recently two weeks ago things turned out bit different. He texted less and started seeing me less. but over this week , he texted me saying he is going though lows and have been questioning his life choices and what he wants do in life, he didnt text me much, and this is the first time he didnt see me over the week days nor weekend. When i confronted how this makes me feel he said he is sorry but he is very bad at relation overall and he is not very empathetic and has not much emotional need and understanding like other do, i texted him back which was a long message about sharing and making adjustments to which he said we shouldnt make a lot of adjustments some for sure , but its not healthy for a relationship to have a lot of sacrifices and that he wants us to be ourselves. I dont really know what to do ? if this is the end of the relationship or he needs space for his mental well being. i dont know how to be there for him , if he really needs me , because he shuts me and doesnt  share much. I would like to request prayer for this relation , as i really want to work this out, he is a nice guy but with this behaviour i dont know if i should stick around. Please pray for his heart to be healed and his health so he is healthy and tells me what he wants.

- anonymous