THE SECOND HALF
What are the secrets to a meaningful life? Women over 50 share their insights.
A book review by Maria Leonard Olsen
I revel in opportunities to question older people about what they have learned. My family used to beg me not to talk to random strangers, but my endless curiosity yielded fodder in my professional life and guidance in my personal endeavors.
Reading Ellen Warner’s “The Second Half: Forty Women Reveal Life After Fifty” is like having one of those intimate conversations with each of 40 women from around the world as they share their formative experiences and advice for younger generations.
Their insights are particularly valuable in a country where intergenerational learning is often lost, where finding assisted-living housing for our senior family members is more common than moving them into our homes.
Concentration camp survivor Odette Walling advises the younger among us to accept the march of time. “Nothing is more annoying than women who want to play twenty years old when they are aging,” she says.
Marilynn Preston, an Emmy Award-winning TV producer and journalist, echoes that sentiment of acceptance: “True freedom is the internal acquiescence to the unfolding of life.”
Jean Angell, a Harvard-educated lawyer with a debilitating illness, explains that she can no longer eat or speak but refuses to give up on life and believes that the struggle brings its own...
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