Thursday June 2, 2016 

Nothing else matters than this. Nothing. You can be generous, but without this it doesn't matter. You can be helpful, yet without this it doesn't matter. The ultimate judgement of your goodness all comes down to one thing. How loving are you? It's not only your obligation, it's your blessing to be an example of the love God. The most important commandment of all God's commandments is to love one another. No exceptions.

1) Acknowledge your fears, but do not face them alone, face them with God. Many people try to mask their anxieties with busy activities. These may distract you from your anxiety for a while, but when they become avoidance techniques, anxiety eventually increases.

2) Stay focused on God. Much anxiety is the result of projecting yourself into future situations. Stay in the present, here and now, with God – since that is all you can control anyway. Let God take over and succeed in this matter.

3) Take it one step at a time. If you are overwhelmed at the thought of confronting an anxiety triggering situation, tackle one piece of that at a time with the help of God. Give yourself permission to repeat steps as many times as it is necessary for you to be completely comfortable.

My son-in-law is difficult to live with and he has taken my daughter and grandson away from me. We all live together and I and he do not get along. We need to live separately but they can't afford to live on their own. He is abusive to everyone and thinks he's the victim. Please help me and us.