Here’s a polite person’s trick, one that never fails. When you are asked to do something you don't want to do, can't afford to do, or are unable to do, bail out in just the right way. Tell them why you are not going to do it, ask for their understanding and ask for their approval. It's a blessing to speak with candor, to go beyond a surface conversation, share your secrets, and bare your soul. Say no and give someone the blessing of knowing you
today.