Following a minor car accident, the Japanese typically get out of their cars and bow, each claiming responsibility. In contrast, Americans are instructed by their insurance companies to avoid admitting fault. When an American living in Japan did just that – even though he knew he was to blame – the Japanese
driver was so incensed by the Americans failure to show contrition that he took the highly unusual step of suing him.
Part of maturity in spirituality is to admit when you are wrong, and be willing to change. It's easy to become so willful in ego that you may refuse to admit fault even when deep inside yourself you know you are wrong. Your ego works to convince you by defending your wrong actions and developing a
strategy for rationalizing them.
As you grow in spirituality you also must grow in character. Taking responsibility means telling the truth and deciding to make a commitment to never lie again even though you think at the time it would be easier.