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SEEING THE GOOD
There once was a woman who had a ritual of having a cup of tea and looking out her kitchen
window.Â
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Each morning she would see her neighbor hanging her laundry to dry on the clothes line in her yard. They were always dirty, spotty, dusty.Â
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She thought to herself, "What is wrong with her? Such a slob." And she shared her negative thoughts with others.
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One day, a friend came to visit. The woman and her friend sat at the table in her kitchen, having tea.Â
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"There she goes again," said the woman. "filthy, dirty clothes on the line, she never gets her clothes clean!"
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Her friend looked out the window and said, "I
don't think it's her laundry that's dirty." She takes her napkin and wipes the kitchen window. "It's your window that's dirty."
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The woman found her glass cleaner and a rag, then thoroughly cleaned her window. With each swipe on the window, she realized her neighbor's laundry was becoming cleaner and
cleaner.
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The problem was never her neighbor's dirty laundry; it was the woman's perspective from her own dirty window.
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Sometimes the imperfections and faults we see in others are really not about them; it's about us fixing ourselves first and seeing with clean, positive eyes.Â
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When our eyes are clear, we can see the good in others.
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