TRUE PURPOSE
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“I’m afraid I’ll soon feel worthless.”Â
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“What?” I was sure I was missing something. I was meeting with someone who had built a highly accomplished career. He was respected, skilled, and successful. Why would he feel that way?
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“In a few months, I’m going to retire,” he explained. “I’ve been thinking a lot about life after retirement. Almost everything in my life has revolved around my career. I’ve invested years and years into it, and now, suddenly, it will be gone. I think the problem is that I defined myself by my job – and that was a mistake.”Â
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I wasn’t sure how to respond. After all, isn’t that what many of us do? A job often occupies most of our waking hours. We invest time, energy, ambition, and identity into our work. It becomes almost natural to define ourselves by our careers.Â
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Then I
realized. Perhaps the issue is not that we define ourselves by our “job,” but that we sometimes define ourselves by the wrong one.Â
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Beyond our professional roles, each of us has a deeper, lifelong mission: to bring light into the world. Every relationship, every interaction with another person, is an
opportunity to uplift, inspire, or encourage.Â
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That mission does not end with retirement. It does not depend on a title, an office, or a paycheck.
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It was God’s commandment to Aaron to light the candles of the Menorah in the Holy Temple, and it is His commandment and empowerment to each of us as well.Â
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We each have an inner flame, which we can – and should use to bring divine light to the lives of others as
well.Â
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May we recognize our own light and be a light to others.Â
Mendy Kaminker (Adapted)